If the woman of the house is miserable, everybody is miserable. Mama argues the opposite is true as well – if the woman is happy, everybody is happy–which leads her to a fundamental truth about relationships: they work best when the woman’s desires are completely fulfilled. Mama also reveals a surprising corollary to this truth: men live to please women, whether they know it or not. MAMA GENA’S OWNERS AND OPERATORS GUIDE TO MEN teaches women how to better understand men and effectively “train” men for relationships full of satisfaction, friendship, and intimacy. She explains how women can investigate what gives them pleasure, how to communicate their desires, how to show appreciation, and how to give back so that both partners get what they want. Mama’s theory is based on the idea there are two basic relationship paradigms, the survival model (in which women serve men in order to get food/shelter/etc.) and the Mama Gena model (in which men serve women in order to get greater friendship/sex/happiness, etc.).